Tricks For Alleviating Home Allergies

Even though summer is almost over, those who suffer from allergies still aren’t likely to experience any relief. Pollen might not be flying in the air as much, but dust, mold, and some air fresheners could still cause potential misery through the winter. It might be difficult to escape pollutants in the air, but there might be something you can do to allergy-proof your house; after all, it should be a refuge from all the allergens. If you’d like a break from over-the-counter products, here are a few tricks to help you alleviate allergies in your home, that might also work beyond your front door.

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Bed sheets

Your bed sheets are the biggest dumping ground for dead skin cells, which leads to millions of dust mites. Although the mites themselves are harmless, their fecal matter and body fragments can trigger allergic reactions like eczema and hay fever, and they affect nearly 80 percent of people with asthma. Fortunately, there are simple ways to get around this. Hypoallergenic sheets, made from materials such as wool, cotton, or even some blends of bamboo, which can be found at bamboocrib.com, is more tightly woven, which makes it impossible for mites and bedbugs to penetrate the material, thus reducing the allergens in your bed. You can further eliminate mites by washing your sheets in hot water, and by leaving your bed unmade every morning.

Adjust your thermostat

Mold thrives in moist conditions, which are mostly found in humid homes when you’re trying to keep warm during winter. The most obvious sign that mold has found its way into your home is some dark patches near to the windows where the cold and warm air are most likely to meet. To help control indoor mold, use a dehumidifier or your air conditioner to keep your home humidity close to 50 percent. A device called a hygrometer can also take the guesswork out of measuring indoor humidity. You can compare low-cost hygrometers at kandrsmith.org.

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Use the dryer

It’s admirable that you want to have an eco-friendly home, but if you suffer from allergies then you really should make good use of your dryer. Hanging your laundry out to dry makes it more likely that allergens will stick to your fresh, clean sheets, making your efforts useless. Hot washes and hot dryers will kill dust mites and eliminate allergens from your bed sheets, clothes, and other fabrics, leaving your house completely allergen-free.

Boost your immune system

OTC medication works great at first, but eventually, it will stop being effective. Either your body builds up a tolerance, or the medication makes you so sleepy that you’re still no use to anyone at work or at home. Fortunately, there are plenty of natural remedies that are more effective than medication for helping you feel like a functioning human being, and they can be incorporated into your diet. Probiotics can influence the immune system and potentially correct the root cause of allergic reactions, so this should be your first solution.

The Secrets to Soothing Sciatica

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If you suffer from sciatica, you will know that the condition, which is caused by nerve issues in the lower back, causes an extremely intense back and leg pain that can make it difficult to even function normally at its worst.

If your sciatica is particularly bad, you may need to look into spine surgeons who can operate on your herniated disk and hopefully solve the problem. Otherwise, and in the meantime, here are some alternatives that may help:

Acupuncture

A lot of sciatica sufferers have found some relief from the ancient Chinese practice of acupuncture, whereby small needles are stuck into the body. There is, however, little scientific evidence to back say whether the practice is truly effective, so try it if you like, but be careful to choose a registered practitioner and do not expect miracles.

Yoga

The Journal of Pain published a study that revealed that people suffering from back pain who practiced Iyengar yoga for a period of just four months, experienced a 64 percent reduction in pain and a 77 percent reduction in disability. Although this study was conducted on back pain, rather than sciatica there is some evidence to suggest that gentle forms of yoga, such as Hatha yoga, can be beneficial for the condition by increasing flexibility and build stronger muscles in the affected area., as well as improving posture, so that sciatica isn’t as aggravated.

Massage

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If you have sciatica, you may well find some relief from massage, but not the kind of gentle, relaxing massages you get at the spa. For massage to be effective on your condition, you need to indulge in a spot of trigger-point therapy which will target the piriform muscle and prevent it from pinching quite so much on the sciatic nerve. You should ensure that you see a trained professional for this, and aim to have a trigger-point massage every 7-10 days.

Anti-inflammatory Oils

Anti-inflammatory oils with active ingredients including capsaicin. And according to some, even St. John’s wort, can help to soothe the pain of sciatica, although it is by no means a permanent solution. Products that contain capsaicin are particularly effective because they help to quickly release pain from the nerve.

Heat/Ice Packs

If you’re looking for an affordable, low-tech solution to soothe your sciatica, you really can’t go wrong with a heat or ice pack which will help to bring down the pain when applied to the affected area for 15-30 minutes at a time as and when needed.

Muscle Relaxants

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Obviously, a lot of sciatica sufferers use over-the-counter painkillers for pain relief, and these can be very effective, but i they don’t work for you, you might want to try some muscle relaxants instead. These will need to be prescribed by your doctor, but they can work quite well if some of your pain is being caused by muscle spasms around your herniated disk.

Although all of the above have found to be helpful by some sciatica sufferers, you should always seek professional medical advice before trying them.

Feeling Under The Weather? You Might Have More Control Over Your Health Than You Think

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When you start feeling sick, then it can be very tempting to declare that you’ve fallen horribly ill and start taking every medicine in your cabinet. This can sometimes be the best thing for you, but people often leap to taking various pills and potions far too soon. The truth is that many of us have far more control over our health than we tend to realise. So the next time you’re feeling a little sick, here are a few things that you might be able to use to make yourself feel better.

 

Staying hydrated

 

This might sound like the most obvious thing in the world, but a lot of people in the modern age simply aren’t drinking enough water. There’s a tendency among many people to rely on things like tea, coffee and energy drinks. While these things might seem pretty thirst quenching and can give you a great boost of energy, they can actually have a pretty detrimental impact on your levels of hydration. Not only are they not as effective at keeping you hydrated as plain old H20, but they can actually act as diuretics and can end up leaving you even more dehydrated than ever. Not only does this put you in danger of pretty severe illness but it can also lead to tiredness and water retention which can impact weight gain pretty significantly.

 

Watch what you eat

 

Of course, we all know that eating too much can leave you feeling sick but what if it’s more serious than that? A lot of people can get so used to feeling sick when they eat certain things that they might not even notice it anymore. If you find that you’re feeling particularly ill after eating certain things, then it might be worth speaking to a GI Doctor to see if you have some kind of intolerance. Whether it’s wheat, dairy or anything else, there are certain foods that can trigger a pretty horrible reaction in a lot of people. It might be disappointing to no longer be able to eat your favourite foods, but that’s a small price to pay to stop feeling sick all the time.

 

How active are you?

 

Because of the rise of computers and the decline of manual labour, it’s become more and more common for people to spend huge amounts of their time completely sedentary. The issue with this is that people are spending less and less of their time being active. Not only does this lead to things like weight gain but it also means that people are spending more and more of their time indoors which can lead to things like vitamin D deficiencies and other problems.

 

Of course, none of these things is designed to replace real medical assistance, and if you’re genuinely worried about your health, then it’s incredibly important that you speak to your doctor as soon as possible. The only thing worse than being too worried about your health is ignoring it to the point where you end up in real danger.

Young at Heart: Childhood Habits We’ll Never Grow Out of

Society wants us to change a lot of things about ourselves as we grow up. Growing into decent human beings means that we need to learn manners, patience, and caution; the kind of traits that children would rather be without. Luckily, we never have to wave goodbye to our entire childhood and, while some people are glad to let go of the nonsense behavior of a child, others are more than reluctant to act their age.


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Here is a handful of habits people across the web declare they’ll never grow out of – so that you can confidently glide down the supermarket in a shopping cart yet again.

 

The ice cream truck

 

Can you hear the ice cream truck playing tunes in your neighborhood at the mere thought of it? A van driving around the streets to the joy and frenzy of children is common in many countries, and it’s not just the US and the UK who enjoys this luxury.

 

Tell little children in Australia, France, and Norway that the truck is outside and they’ll jump straight onto their bicycles as well, chasing the tune until they reach the goods.

 

Luckily, we never have to grow out of the habit, and people all over the web are swearing their loyalty to it till this day; five, twenty-five or fifty, it doesn’t matter – we love ice cream and especially when we have to work for it.

 

The bean bag

 

This teenage-room classic has found a home in the living room of many grown-ups lately. More cost-effective than a luxurious lounge chair and often just as comfy, the trend is real – and if you’re interested in one that’s even tailored for us who would like to accommodate for our inner child as much as possible, you can have a look at this from bag for adults that are young at heart.

 

It’s the one thing we got right when we were kids, and we’ll sink into one of these until we’re too old to get up on our own.

 

Running up the stairs

 

Surprisingly, this is a habit many adults out there declare that they’ll keep doing for as long as possible. Doing it three steps at a time, on all fours, and feeling like ninjas – the adult stair-runners are well into their twenties, and they’ll keep going.

 

It’s undeniably a faster way to get to the top of the staircase – but if you’d do it for the fun of it, you can find comfort in the fact that those that are particularly young at heart even run up the escalators. So the next time you see someone speed past you in the shopping mall, you know they’re not actually in a hurry – they’re just having fun.

 

The list goes on, really, and Internet users all around the world are admitting to arguments in the grocery shops with their young children over who should ride the shopping cart, and who should enjoy the swing at the playground.

 

Perhaps their children will grow into more conventional grown-ups – or perhaps they’ll continue to have just as much fun as their parents.  

The Realities Of Regular Drinking: Will A Glass Of Wine A Day Really Keep The Doctor Away?

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We all lead stressful lives. It’s no surprise, then, that we want to get as much enjoyment from our down time as possible. As such, many of us turn to a glass of wine each evening. It’s the perfect way to step away from the stress of every day.

Even better, there has been some suggestion that a nightly glass could ‘keep the doctor away.’. That’s a sentiment most of us are willing to get behind. But, how many of us actually take the time to consider the reasoning?

There’s no denying that there are health benefits to wine drinking. But, the statement may well be misleading, and possibly even damaging if taken at face value. To get to the bottom of the issue, we’re going to look at the health benefits, and their less spoken of the dark side.

The Health Debate

Many of us fail to understand how wine is good for us. Which is why we’re going to look into the issue. If you’re using the health argument as a reason to continue, you should at least know what you stand to benefit.

For the most part, it’s the antioxidants in wine which do the good stuff. Dry wines like Cabernet have been proven as particularly health effective. But, what do those antioxidants do? Studies have revealed that regular wine drinking can benefit anything from blood pressure to memory. In fact, a study in France showed that women over 50 who drank a glass of wine each day were 2.5 times more likely to score in the top 10% on memory tests. Who would’ve thought that alcohol could help you remember? Again, the grapes are to thank.

Wine is also fantastic for keeping the disease at bay, as it fights bacteria. Plus, it doesn’t have the downside of suppressing your immune system, like many other alcohols. All good so far, right?

The Realistic Risks

While enough studies have proven the above benefits, they fail to take the risks into account. The main issue is that most people don’t stop at one glass. Once a bottle is open, a shocking amount decides to finish the whole thing.

And, when you’re drinking a bottle, the health benefits fail to outweigh the negative implications. Worse, heavy drinking on a regular basis could lead to addiction. So that wine you drank for your health could see you doing a stint in a recovery center like Compass Recovery. It’s far from what you had in mind, and no way to keep the doctor at bay.


And, addiction aside, there are other issues. Wine may fight illnesses, but heavy drinking has been known to increase the cancer risk. Wine can also cause problems for fertility. Women drinking five units or fewer are two times more likely to conceive fast than those drinking more than ten units.

So, yes, there are health benefits. But, that shouldn’t mean you forget the importance of moderation. A glass of wine won’t hurt. But, can you trust yourself to stop there?

Healthy Kids That Happily Eat Everything Is A Myth, Right? Or Is It…

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We all know that having kids is a joy, and although times can get tough, you wouldn’t have it any other way. But there are certain challenges of parenthood that we’d all like to avoid. Even when you’re happy for their developmental milestones to vary, and for each child to reach their potential as and when they’re ready, there are things that you wish you could iron out as soon as possible. Fussy eating habits are definitely one of them. For their own health and enjoyment, it’s important to ensure that your kids are happy to eat pretty much everything, or at least be willing to try. So how do you make that happen?

 

Get Them Interested

 

When your children are disinterested in something, it can often feel impossible to get them to do anything. And this can be the case with food. So, you’re going to want to start off by trying to get them more interested in both food and eating. There are different ways that you may want to approach this task, but generally, you may find that shopping for food together is a great idea. Likewise, you may want to come up with ways to make mealtimes fun to start with, so that they look forwards to them more.

 

Try To Understand

 

However, you may find that it is difficult for you to move past the idea of them being a picky eater unless you’re able to understand it. Every child can have their own individual reasons behind their complicated relationship with food, but there is often an emotional reason behind it. So, you’re going to work with them, try to get behind their fears and ensure that you can break down those barriers together, bit by bit.

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Work With Substitutes To Start With

 

As you start off on your journey of trying to get your kids to eat more, you may have to make some exceptions and exclusions to get you all on the right track. If there are things that they will not eat, you may need to work them up to them or work with simple alternatives to start with. Whether you go for coated fish rather than plain fillets or watermelon water instead of standard spring water, now’s the time to make those substitutes. Before you know it, they will be moving on and feeling comfortable with new things.

 

Encourage Them To Cook

 

Sometimes, you can actually work to break down food barriers by involving your kids more in the cooking process. When they’re involved, they can often be proud of what they’ve made and more interested in eating it. Understanding food and how it’s made, along with the different ingredients, can also help to remove any fears that they may have.

 

Be Positive About All Food

And finally, you’re going to need to be positive about food all of the time. Sometimes, kids can pick up on fears based on your attitude to food, or the attitudes of others – like the childhood obsession with disliking broccoli. But if you want them to try new food, you have to be positive. Providing a safe environment for them to sample new things is often crucial because it’s often all about how you approach their eating habits over anything else.

7 Layer Dip, Recipe + Love One Today® Avocado Party

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Growing up, my mom served avocado with just about every meal we had.  She loves them more than anyone I’ve met before, except maybe me.  I don’t know if it was due to her influence of serving avocados so much or if it’s because I have the same cravings as she does, but like her, my kids were raised on avocados.   From tacos to salads to my 7 layer dip recipe, I serve avocado’s just about daily.  I even use them in my smoothies.  As much as I love avocados, I equally love to host parties. Of course, I show off my favorite avocado recipes during all of my events.  Some I’ve created myself and some I talked my mom out of.  I’ve tried just about every avocado recipe online that I could find as well.

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There are several reasons why it’s easy to get the kids to eat avocados. In fact, they were my kids first fruit. They are smooth and have a creamy consistency along with a mild taste. I would mash them up and feed them from a spoon until they were old enough to have slices of them. Like my own kids, even before I knew about the nutritional value of fresh avocados, I loved them. After learning that Avocados contribute nearly 20 nutrients, including vitamins, minerals, dietary fiber, and phytonutrients, that are important to infant/toddler nutrition, I started giving them to the kids even more often than I already was. My mom probably knew all of this when she served us avocados, but being a child, all I knew was that I loved the taste. She was counting on that when she served us meals with avocado in them. I’m sure she also knew that wholesome, fresh foods are less likely to contain added sugars, salt, and other processed ingredients.

Today I’d like to share my favorite 7 layer dip recipe with you so you can encourage your own kids to enjoy avocados. It’s sure to be a party favorite so go ahead and bookmark my post to save my recipe.

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Ingredients:

5 Ripe Avocados. Use 4 in recipe and dice 1 for the top.
1 can of refried beans.
16 ounces of sour cream.
1 pack of dry taco seasoning mix.
1 to 2 lemons (need 2 teaspoons) or lemon juice.
Garlic cloves (grind 3 cloves).
Green onion (chop 3 to 4 stalks)
2- 8-ounce blocks of cheese, grated (I use mild).  If you’re in a hurry, pre-grated cheese works well.
1 small can of sliced black olives.
1 medium-sized tomato diced, chunky sizes.

Instructions:

In a glass bowl spread the can of refried beans evenly along the bottom.
Combine the sour cream and the dry taco seasoning, then spread on top of the beans.
Mix the avocados with the lemon juice and garlic. Sometimes I mash them, sometimes I cube them. Add on top of the sour cream mixture.
Add the cheese, green onions, black olives and tomatoes to top it off.

Serve with Tortillas.

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Ways To Get Back On Track After Health Scares

Health scares happen to us all at many points in our life. They can even change as we get older, and so dealing with them is essential know-how in navigating life’s mysterious ways. Don’t get bogged down in a worry circuit if you receive a scare or think you have one. Here are a few tips on how to combat a health scare with some personal recovery.

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Do what you need to recover from the fear

 

Your heart is pounding, your hair is all standing on end, and you have this sense of overwhelming dread. Sound familiar? Fear responses take a toll on our mental health as much as our repeated stress does on our physical health.

 

Health scares affects us all in a similar way, and recovering from the initial shock of one can take time and often is done improperly. Talk to someone about your fears as soon as you can, whether it be a friend or professional. It’s always better to be safe than sorry.

 

Use rehab centers if necessary

 

This option is for the more serious health scares you’ve experienced. For example, being told you need to stop taking a certain tablet as it’s severely damaging your health but you’ve become dependent on its use. It can seem a little taboo or unnecessary, but using a rehab center such as The Recovery Village after receiving this kind of information or after consulting your doctor on ways to get off of a treatment is one of the best ways to recover from a health scare in the long term. Any withdrawal symptoms can be combatted in an environment specifically designed to get through them.

 

Rehab is hard to go through and involves a lot of difficulty with adjusting to life when it comes to coming back to the real world. It’s important to know that everyone can accomplish it, however. It may sound scary to go through something like a medical detox, but you can take as much time as you need with well-trained people on your side. It’s a big step to undertake, but it will be worth the time and struggle.

 

Depend upon advice from trained professionals

 

It’s extremely easy to go online and find all sorts of unverified information that will scare you in an instant. If you’ve had a health scare and need more information on symptoms or what to do, or if you simply don’t want to have a health scare, keep away from this kind of online boards.

 

Depending on your doctor’s advice is always the best route forward. Book an appointment and get your fears assuaged or assessed by a professional.

 

To succeed in life, we have to face challenges that scare us. But we don’t have to do them alone. Look for and use the support you need to get through a health scare and don’t be afraid of what lies ahead. It sounds easy to talk about, but the doing doesn’t have to be difficult either.

The Signs Of Eye Disease Before It’s Too Late

No matter how healthy our lifestyle, we all face certain threats to our health as we age. It’s part and parcel of life, and something we have to face head on. Some of these risks, such as back issues, difficulty walking, and increased risk of heart attacks, are at the forefront of most of our minds. But, those are far from the only issues we need to consider. Something we think less about in relation to aging is our eyes.

Of course, we all know that eyesight deteriorates. But, what we don’t all realize is that age opens us up to a variety of eye diseases. And, if they strike, we stand to lose our eyesight altogether. Issues such as glaucoma and cataracts can cause huge problems in older patients. If we go about things right, there are plenty of ways to prevent such issues or at least lessen their impact. Here are a few points you should take forward with you when it comes to your eye health.

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Know Your Family History

We all know that genetics play a huge role in health. As such, parents always pass on significant health histories, such as cancer, or diabetes. But, most of us know less about our family’s eye health. Most of us don’t even consider it. That could cause issues. When you go in for an opticians appointment, they will always ask you about your family history. If your gran has glaucoma, but you fail to mention it, you may well suffer for it. So, take the time to find out these things. Call around anyone who can give you information. A step like this may well save your sight.

Check You Out

Who here goes to the dentist every six months? With a bit of luck, most of you. But, fewer people realize the importance of regular eye checks. We should attend these throughout our lives, but they’re especially important as we age. These checks are the only real way to spot the early signs of eye disease, thus allowing you to take action. In the early stages, there may be no symptoms you would notice, but an eye check could reveal the issue. You should book an appointment at your local eye center at least every two years, more if you already wear glasses. It’s the only way to be sure of your eye health.

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Know The Symptoms

 

You also need to be aware of the symptoms. How else are you going to know if eye disease strikes? In extreme cases, sight loss will, of course, be the main noticeable symptom. But, there are often signs before things get to that level. Some things look out for include:

 

  • Redness or swelling around eyes
  • Blurred, or double vision
  • Pain in eye
  • Any sudden changes in sight
  • Clouded appearance

 

As soon as you spot any of these things, you should book yourself an appointment with a professional. Even if it turns out to be nothing, it’s better safe than sorry!

Words Of Wisdom For Those Approaching 40

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After realizing we didn’t know our local area anywhere near as well as we know our favorite holiday spot, we decided to do a bus tour of our home city. It was while riding this that we overheard a woman fretting about turning 40. To sum up her conversation, she was worried about this milestone for the simple fact she believed she would be more “complete” by now as if she hadn’t quite achieved that successful image she had painted in her mind.

 

It got us thinking about how much expectation we throw onto our shoulders and whether we would have done things differently. Not an easy answer. However, while thinking about that, we veered off a tangent and started thinking about the different lessons we have learned along the way, lessons that could help other people slip into their forties with a little swag in the walk and a huge smile on their face.

 

So, without further ado, here are the best life lessons we have picked up on our journey through life. Wow.

 

  1. Age Is Just A Number. That’s A Fact

You’ve no doubt heard the phrase, “growing old is inevitable, but growing up is optional.” Well, that statement is absolutely spot on. You are only as old as you feel, so don’t let age convince you that you’re old and decrepit and unable to enjoy life anymore. When you turn thirty, you start telling yourself that you are an old lady and then, when you hit forty, you start wishing you had appreciated your youth that much more. Don’t let the placebo take over. In fact, do the opposite and take the fight to your age.

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  1. Get To Know Who You Are And Love That Person

The only way you can really love who you are, in a total sense, if if you get to know who you are and start to enjoy the changes we all go through. Get that right and all that self-esteem, happiness and confidence stuff will follow suit. That’s not all, though. You see, the more you accept who you are, the more you can accept others too, and that brings about relationships so tight you’ll feel the air squeezed out of you.

 

  1. Enjoy Those All Of A Sudden Wrinkles

We’re not sure anyone really gets used to the fact their face is slowly turning into a spirograph, but the more you accept this the more you’ll embrace them. We heard an elderly lady once call them laughter lines, which is exactly what they are. They are your laugh lines and what they signify is a life enjoyed, where laughter ruled the roost, not a frown. Embrace these and help your friends embrace them too. Laugh about them. It will warm your soul if nothing else. Of course, it is also totally fine for you to start fighting these wrinkles as early as you like.

 

  1. Never Give Up On Getting Fit. Never.

There are so many benefits to working out, whether it is a run along a beach, a cycle around the park, or yoga classes with your best friend. There is the chance to lose that middle-aged weight you’re fretting about (or at least hold off any more weight joining the party). There is the benefit it has in boosting your quality of life and preventing any of those women’s health issues creeping into your existence. And then there are those other little benefits that include stress management, boosting your metabolism, releasing endorphins to feel good and the sense of achievement that can really lift your day. Yeah, trying to get fit is definitely worthwhile when you’re approaching your 40s.

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  1. Embrace The Part Of You That Wants A Vagabond Life.

There is no such thing as traveling too much. In fact, not traveling enough tends to be people’s biggest regret when they finally get comfortable in their old age, which is why you should make a conscious effort to buy memories and not material things. After all, do you want stuff to show or stories to tell? A great rule to follow is the one new place every year rule, which will see you start to tick off those bucket list destinations for real and not just accept them as a pipe dream that takes up space on the cork board on your kitchen wall.

 

  1. No More Of That Comparison Nonsense.

We do feel bad for kids these days. What with all that pressure of not feeling good enough and having to constantly compare themselves to others. But it isn’t just kids who have become subject to the plague that is Facebook. We know that you can’t completely stop comparing yourself to others. But comparing your life to your best friends and knowing the context is a lot better than comparing your behind the scenes footage to the highlight reel of someone you knew twenty-five years ago. You need to accept that there will always be someone with more money, a better career, more holidays or better legs; that’s just life. But those people are also comparing themselves to others. So stop. Delete the Facebook app from your phone and toss Instagram to the wayside. Your life will be so much more fulfilling without them.

 

 

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  1. Remember That Kids Grow So Fast.

By the time you’ve fully adjusted to the fact you have kids, that phase will be over with and you’ll be sat wondering where the time went and how you got to this stage already. It is overwhelming, but with all that attention and care, the time just slips by. So make a mental note – or a physical reminder – to enjoy every second with them. It may seem long in your head, but the entire time they live with you at home is rather short in the grand scheme of life. Remember that and embrace what you have when you have it.

 

  1. Don’t Care So Much. In Fact, Don’t Care At All.

Everyone that is pushing the forty-barrier will be nodding their head at this next statement: we wish we stopped caring what others thought of us sooner. Look, self-doubt happens, that is a fact, but just because it happens doesn’t mean it has to win. Instead, stop caring so much about what other people think of you and start doing more of what you want to do… in all aspects of your life… period. What others think of you really is none of your business. Once you realize that, well, you can live your life with the right motivations.