When It’s Time To Let Go Of A Relationship

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Relationships are hard, even when you meet the right person. However, this doesn’t mean that being in a relationship with someone has to be more of a struggle than it’s worth or make you unhappy more than you are happy, so how do you know when you should give up on a relationship and when it’s worth fighting for? 

 

Slow Down

Take your time, and don’t let yourself be ruled by knee-jerk reactions. You need to take your time, go slow and think about what you really want and how you really feel. 

 

Talk To Others

You might not want to talk to people you know, some people may not want to get involved, or you might want to speak to a stranger. Have a look online at forums or read real-life stories such as these from the Serratelli Law Firm, you may be able to relate to some, and it may help you with your thinking. 

 

Reflect On Why You Got Together In The First Place

It’s essential to look at when you got together in the first place and what it was. Look back at what situation and location you were in your life at the time and what was going on. There could be several reasons why you are with your partner, and they might not necessarily be the right ones. 

 

Break Your Routine

We all know what it’s like to get stuck in a rut, so it’s essential to look at your relationship and see what things do you do for each other because it’s a habit and what do you do because you care and want to do it for the other person? If you break your routine, then it’s easier to see this and to look at your relationship from a different perspective, almost an outsider’s point of view – but not quite. 

 

Determine If Your Past Is Impacting Your Present

It can be hard to let go of the past, and while you think you have done, it has a nasty way of coming back to surprise you at times. When you’re with someone for a long time and spend a lot of time with them, it isn’t straightforward to realize your behavior and how you might be acting towards your partner. It’s essential to reflect but also to know if things are still bothering you from the past and if it has had an effect on what is going on now. 

 

How Hard Have You Both Tried?

The key to knowing if it’s time to move on is to take a look at how much each of you has tried. Is your partner trying to correct their faults? Are they willing to take responsibility for fixing their side of things? And you as well, are you looking at what you have done and taking responsibility for your wrongdoings? What are you doing to correct your faults? If you think you have both done everything you can to salvage the relationship, then it might be time to let go.

 

Ultimately, when you know, you know, but it is a big decision, and it is good to make sure that you have considered everything that will help to remove any doubt you have in the future. 

The Key to Staying Young? Always Pushing Yourself

It’s normal to wind down when we reach a certain age, but you don’t have to. Taking it easy and settling into routines will happen by default, but you can rebel against it if you want. You just need to think about it. Find new and exciting ways to stay young and fresh, and you’ll feel a lot younger than your years suggest. Here are five ways to break out of the mold.

Broadening Your Horizons

 

When we’re young, we always have new experiences. There comes a time when these new experiences stop happening naturally, and we need to actively push ourselves to make them happen. If it’s been awhile since you stepped outside of your comfort zone, now’s the time to take a trip, try a new hobby or sport, or take a course to learn a new skill. You never know the path you might take when you undertake a new adventure!

 

A New Career

 

If you’ve been in the same job for a couple of decades, what’s stopping you from getting a new career? It can be scary to leave the comfort of the familiar, but starting a new career can be rewarding and make the Monday – Friday routine more exciting. You’ll have more skills now than you did when you were in your twenties, so not put them to use? Enroll in a coaching course, and you’ll be able to bring your people skills and natural energy to your job. You’re never too old (or young!) to take a different path in life. What jobs might you be suited for that you’re missing out on?  

 

Getting Involved

 

There’s a whole world that might be passing you by if you’re not involved with current affairs. Instead of sitting on the sidelines, just watching things unfold, you can get involved and become part of the process. You don’t have to become a senator to make a difference. Local charities and organizations really do make a difference. If there’s a cause you feel particularly attached to, meet with the groups in your area and turn your passion into action.

 

Making the Most Of What You’ve Learned

 

You feel like you know everything when you’re young; when you’re old, you realize you know nothing. But you do know a lot and will have learned a lot just through the course of living, or at least you will if you’ve kept your eyes open as you walked through life. The process of staying young, then, is to incorporate everything you’ve learned into your life. If you know that diving into a cold body of water each day makes you feel alive, then that’s just what you should be doing.

 

Pushing Yourself

 

There are plenty of suggestions on how to stay young and alive, but what if the best remedy hasn’t yet been thought of? Life is about exploration; what can you come up with? Just because it’s never been done before doesn’t mean it never will! Carve out your own path, and you’ll inspire others.